STARCK FAMILY

Lauren Grace Boutique

2011-08-12T02:41:00.002-05:00

It's been forever since I blogged- like FOREVER but just want everyone that does take the time to follow our lives that we appreciate it.

I tend to have three minutes a day to get on the Internet so that is why the blogging has came to a screeching halt. I am busy with my babies and that my friend is the best busy there can be. I love every thing about this time in my life. I love learning more about my husband as we grow and mature. I love parenting these two precious children of ours more than anything in the world. I never in my wildest imagination thought that Motherhood would be this sweet.

Also, and this is coming far off this topic but I have a lady that I order the cutest onesie's and burp clothes from and she just started making hats. The hats can be decorated with different colors or sport teams. I am contemplating getting a MIZZOU one from her before football season starts. Her blog is Lauren Grace Boutique go check it out, you won't be disappointed.

2011-05-20T18:58:00.002-05:00

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Silly Antics

2011-03-01T10:08:00.002-06:00

Things I am thinking today:

Gosh I love this peace and quiet- I need to start getting up earlier than Grace all the time to enjoy myself like this.

I can't wait until Grace and I go get some pancakes today.

I really need to start thinking what I want to do as far as my maternity leave goes- 6- 8- or 10 weeks.

I really love Easter and love seeing things in the store to get ready for it.

I wish Gracie would just pee pee on the potty.

That's all folks for today.

Where has the time gone

2011-03-01T10:02:00.002-06:00

It seems just like yesterday that I found out that I was pregnant and now I only have a few more weeks left- YIKES!!! We have been really getting into gear getting ready for Caleb's arrival. We put together the swing, bassinet, dug out the car seat, packed the diaper bag, etc. so we are slowly but surely getting there. I still need to get Jamie to pick up the bed and put it together but that is the last thing that needs to be done. Wish us luck as we finish all the details in preparing for his arrival. We couldn't be anymore excited and blessed. I joke around that I wish I was having a girl but I really do feel blessed beyond beliefs just to have this opportunity to be a Mom again and can't wait to meet my son.

Winter Blues

2011-03-01T09:47:00.003-06:00

Man am I behind.......................

It has been a long winter over here at the Starck home. We have had a few major snow storms, freezing cold temperatures, and two tornadoes. I am so ready for Spring that I can taste it. Grace went sledding this winter for the first time ever. To say that she enjoyed sledding would be an understatement. I took her myself one afternoon and she was silent on the way down the hill and then after she realized we stopped she just laid back in that sled and belly laughed. I thought to myself this is what being a parent is all about, spending time with your children and really enjoying it, because in that second my heart was so full it could have fell to the ground. Then after a few more trips down the hill I thought to myself "what am I thinking I am seven months pregnant and one wrong bump I could break my water" LOL and that was then end of sledding that day. The next sledding trips for Grace were courtesy of my little brothers. All I had to do was bundle her up real good and they did all the hard work- walking up and down the hills to send her in a state of enjoyment.

We did several indoor activities this Winter. We played over at my friend Angie's house quite frequently. Grace is in love with Luke and Jacob and could stay over there all day if we could. We went to the indoor mall playgrounds a few times, Chuck E Cheeses, and Magic House. All in all, my little girl is one cool chick. She sure knows how to take it easy on you because she tolerated being cooped up in the home better than any child I could imagine. She was making me proud turning into such a little home body the last couple of weeks.

Now, I am going to try to make the best of the next few weeks. I plan on taking Grace to the Zoo, Magic House, and Botanical Gardens at least once each place and to the park next door several times. I want to savior each and every second of the next few weeks spending time with just her because after Caleb gets here things will be different. I love that I waited these few years in between to have children so I was able to do such special things with Grace.

New Year's 2011

2011-01-08T20:48:00.007-06:00

New Year-New Us

I am not setting any resolutions this year because I am not all that good at following through with them, and with Caleb coming, I know I am going to be one crazy, busy woman.

We do have some big plans this year though: just to enjoy life and enjoy our babies everyday. I mean really enjoy them; like play more, laugh more, do crafts together, go to the pool and playground, just live like they could be taken away from us at any given minute.

If you ask my husband our goal of 2011 is to pay off my car and my big student loan and save for our next home. I agree those things are vital but just a small part of what 2011 will be about. It just seems like life lately is so surreal to me, just when I think that it can't get any better it does--and in a big way.

I hope to all of you that follow this blog have a great year that brings you many blessings.

Christmas 2010

2011-01-01T02:16:00.010-06:00

Christmas this year was wonderful!! It was by far the best Christmas of my life. I think my heart melted a million times watching the excitement on my little girl's face, and that my friend is priceless. She had been talking about Santa and really looking forward to Christmas so I know this year was no let down for her. She had a little list that she would rattle off to anyone that wanted to listen.

Christmas Eve-

We went over to my parent's house and it was quiet, calm, and just plain nice. We had yummy appetizers that we enjoyed. We walked in and my mom had all the presents under the tree and Gracie didn't even bother them. When it came time to open up presents she was so excited. She screamed out "Thank You", "Happy Birthday to me", and belted out Jingle Bells pretty frequently. It was funny to see how the dynamics in my family have changed because everyone was enjoying watching Grace get so excited that they all waited to open presents until after she was done. After my sister wheeled out her little baby stroller you would have thought we gave her the moon!!!

Christmas Day-

Christmas Eve night we told Grace that when she woke up that she could run down the hallway to see what all Santa brought her. We woke her up and she looked at us and said "Is it time for me to run down the hallway". Is that not about the cutest thing you ever heard? She opened up all her presents and played with them all morning. It was so rewarding and worth every ounce of energy that I put into the holidays by watching Grace that morning.

That afternoon we headed over to Jamie's Grandmother's house and celebrated with his family. Grace hasn't been around his family all that much and I was hoping that she wouldn't act too shy, but she did at first and then warmed up to them. Grace was loving on her Daddy at her house and being as cute as can be. It is a shame how much people can miss out on someone growing up so fast.

Later in the evening, we headed to my Aunt Jackie's. Grace was once again a perfect little girl. We had many compliments that they couldn't believe how good she was for as late as it was and how wonderful she was when everyone was opening up gifts. She got some GOOD stuff over there. One gift was a steel shopping cart that she wheeled around for the rest of the evening. I couldn't get enough of my little family that day.

This family thing that I got going on is a good thing. I love watching Jamie with Grace and I love watching Grace with Jamie. I thought I loved my life before the last few years but man I didn't know what I was missing!!!! I look at this year and think about how much more exciting it will be next year with little Caleb.

Exciting, Exciting, Exciting

2010-12-05T11:07:00.006-06:00

Boy are we getting excited over here for Christmas. Grace has been talking about Santa like crazy. We have asked her what she wants Santa to bring her if she keeps on being a good girl and she keeps on saying, "toys". We took her to Santa's Magical Kingdom to look at some Christmas lights last night and she LOVED them. Her little face kept on taking my breath away. You drive through the park in your car to see the lights and we had to wait in line for about forty minutes. Grace bopped her head to the music, pointed her little fingers at things she saw, and talked like crazy about it. We didn't get out of the car to see Santa because the lines were so long and it was so cold but it was so fun to see Grace so excited.

I tell you it is pure magic to see the excitement in your child's face. Knowing that she is seeing and understanding things for the first time. It even makes me emotional seeing Jamie interact with her when she is excited like this. I can't get enough of it. We will probably hit up every Christmas light exhibit in the Metro St. Louis area in the next month!! We talked about baby Jesus last night when we saw him in the manger and she kept on talking about our friend's baby named Jacob-she was totally confused. I can't wait until she starts to realize the real reason behind the season. I am so grateful for what God has given us this last year, we are blessed and feel so fortunate for these blessings.

Fall into me........

2010-11-04T04:18:00.005-05:00

I love Fall like I love my child!!!! It is the best time of the year-crisp air, leaves turning bright orange and red, the smell of bonfires, pumpkin patches, Halloween costumes, coats, and tights on little girls.

I know I am eons behind on blogging but wanted to get caught up and let everyone know what we have been up to. We took Grace to Eckert's Pumpkin Patch and she had a great time. We forced her to ride a little carnival ride and she was so stubborn that she wanted to enjoy it but wouldn't let herself it was so funny. We walked around and had a great time as a family.

We took her trick-or-treating for Halloween. She was a little 50's girls. I didn't really get a good picture of her because she was too busy wanting to get lots of candy and wanted to play with her cousins. My Mom always makes chili and a spread to go with it. It seems like I can't get enough of chili lately.

On a sad note, Jamie's sweet, sweet Grandma Starck passed away this month. She was so special to him and played such an important part in his life. She let him stay in her home and made a home for him multiple times. At her funeral, so many people said such wonderful things about her that I found it inspiring. Like a woman that anyone would be lucky to be anything like.

Love is.................

2010-11-04T04:05:00.006-05:00

Love is knowing that you have a healthy baby growing inside you.........
Love is knowing that you have been given such a wonderful gift from God........
Love is knowing that you child is going to have the honor of being a big sister..............
Love is knowing that you get to see your husband become a father to another child.........
Love is knowing that you have been so blessed that you can hardly catch your breath..........

I don't know what I have done in this life to deserve such blessings but life is good, SO GOOD!!!! We are having another baby for those of you that don't know. We found out this week that it is a boy. We just continue to pray for the safety and health of this child.

I lay awake at night sometimes wondering what my plan is in life-what God has in store for me. I still don't know, but in the meantime will continue to just love what I have. I see so many other women that are good people that would give anything to be a mother and struggle with infertility and such and my heart breaks for them. I just feel so incredibly lucky that God has just gave me so much and feel so fortunate. I will continue to pray for those women out there that want to become mothers that God soon blesses them.

My husband is over the moon with excitement with the news that we are having a boy. He will make such a great dad to a boy. He is so wonderful with Gracie that I sometimes feel inadequate. He has exceeded any expectations that I had for him as a parent. I feel lucky to be his counterpart in life.

Oh baby!!!!

2010-08-11T05:59:00.004-05:00

We had a small baby shower for Angie and Jen at Krieger's a few weeks back. Kim is a waitress there and had everything set up before we got there. We all had a great time eating and catching up. They both got some really great gifts and I loved watching them open their presents. I love all things baby!! Grace was a really good girl and ate and played good. Here are a few pictures from that afternoon.

Part two of Summer Vacation

2010-08-11T05:30:00.005-05:00

So when we figured out that we weren't going back to Sesame Place, we decided that we would head to the beach. Jamie came up with Virgina Beach and I didn't mind trying it out. We left our hotel at like 6am that morning and made it to the beach by 1ish.

We checked into our hotel and then headed to the beach. Jamie and I set up our area and then got into the ocean. Grace was scared of the ocean and played it safe by playing in the sand. Jamie and I on the other hand had sooooo much fun in the water letting the waves crash into us. It was exhilarating. We laughed so hard!!! At one time, Jamie was holding Grace to show her that there was nothing to be scared of and took her out to where his knees were touching and then somehow a BIG wave came rolling in and crashed right into them and Jamie fell over with Grace in his arms. They both came up after the tide broke looking like drowned rats. Grace had this look on her face like-you two are crazy! I didn't want to get in this water before and then you basically drowned me. Get me out of here!!! So for the rest of the vacation Grace played it safe and played right next to us in the sand.

We checked out the boardwalk and it was AWESOME. Everything you could need was along it. They had the neat little vendors selling hot dogs, ice cream, soda, etc. as you walked by. Grace passed out in her stroller as we walked. We walked the entire length of the boardwalk and were so tired by the time we got back to the hotel. We took naps and then got ready for dinner. We walked to dinner that night. We picked a restaurant on the boardwalk. It was so neat to be able to walk to dinner and eat right there on the ocean. I put this little pink dress on Grace with little pigtails in her hair and she looked so cute!!! Everyone walking by was telling us that she was so darling and I have to admit I couldn't have agreed more!! I loved Virgina Beach like no other. Probably one of my very favorite vacations to date.

The next day we did the same. We walked to lunch from our hotel and then headed to the beach. One really neat thing about the beach was that they had these playgrounds right on the sand. Jamie got all cozy on the beach blanket and Grace bolted to the playground, and that, my friend was where I had to spend my afternoon. She had sooooo much fun that day playing on the playground. Seriously who came up with that idea-pure genius!!!

There was an Air Force base in Virginia Beach and they constantly take the airplanes out to practice. Grace didn't know what an airplane was before the trip and is now an airplane aficionado. She got such a kick out of pointing to them and screaming "airplane". We only heard that a hundred times-it was so cute!

On the way home from Virginia Beach we were on a mission to find a Chick-fil-a because I had never eaten there and they have a play place for Grace. It was not a disappointment!!! Grace however, was too scared to play in the play place. Another time, perhaps!!

Enjoy the pictures!!!

Part 1 of Summer Vacation

2010-08-11T05:16:00.007-05:00

We went on a week vacation to Philadelphia and Virgina Beach. I will cover the vacation in two posts, one from Sesame Place and the other at Virginia Beach.

Sesame Place is a theme park that is based off of Sesame Street. Grace really enjoyed it. There was some freakish cold front that came through the week we were there and the highest the temperature got was like 78 degrees. It made for a very comfortable day doing all the dry attractions, not so much with the water attractions. We got our swimming suits on and lasted a whole ten minutes in the first water ride. Grace's lips were a deep shade of purple and she was shivering. The problem was that the park consisted of probably 70% water rides and 30% dry attractions. So we did all we could do in one afternoon with the dry stuff and we were done. We had two day passes and didn't come back the second day because it was even colder. We did take Grace to the Elmo's World Show and she loved it!!!

She was so tired that she fell asleep before we got to the highway when we left there that day. We went back to our hotel and took a long nap and then went out to dinner. We had such a relaxing time-no agenda, just spending time together. Grace was so funny in all the hotels we went to, checking them out and looking around. That night when we were trying to get to bed I heard Grace singing "nana nana Elmo's World, nana nana". That right there made the entire trip to Sesame Place worth it. The drive to Pennsylvania was beautiful. I loved driving through the mountains. Grace did wonderful in the car and lasted hours with out having to get out and that surprised Jamie and I. We were prepared for the worst.

So enjoy the pictures.

Way too long!

2010-08-11T04:52:00.005-05:00

I have been a super slacker and haven't posted in the longest time. I have been in a blogging funk to say the least. As to why, I am not for sure. So to get caught up I will post some pictures from our summer vacation, a friends shower, and just some pictures of my little cutie!!!

We have been busy around here (story of my life) and have been trying to make the best of every day. We have gone swimming quite a bit and spent some time doing things indoors because it is too darn hot outside to function. I went for a walk today and lasted about ten minutes. Then I took Grace over to the playground and she had sweat dripping down her face and looked at me like "get me outta here I am melting!!!"

We are getting ready to try a new church this weekend. Nothing happened at our old church, in fact Grace will probably still go to preschool there. but we want a church that we can see ourselves at for years and has really good programs for youth.

I have been trying my best to savor each day with Grace to take it all in, like the last drops of a really good milkshake. It seems like I blink my eyes and she is another month old so I made a vow to myself that I would make each day count and even if that meant a day we were staying home to clean and do laundry that we would laugh and hug and have fun at home. Grace is getting so smart and always wants to be on the go. As soon as the wakes up in the morning she is asking to go to "Ma Ma's house". Then she gets so upset with me that we don't go. Poor girl!!! She has been such a lover lately and I am just eating that up. Anytime my little girl wants to give a hundred kisses and hugs-you better believe I'll take it!!!

I can't believe summer is coming to a close. Kinda bittersweet-It just went so fast!!! We got a lot planned with Grace this coming Fall. I have her signed up for dance class. I don't know how this will go, it could be good or really bad!! She is going to do a Kickaroo soccer program with her Daddy. Were also are thinking about going back to the Little Gym because she loved that place.

All is well with her and the babysitter. We love Ms. Judy like a family member and the feeling is mutual. I think I love her because I know she takes care of Grace like a Grandma would. Grace also has little friends over there that she enjoys very much.

Grace continues to be a Daddy's girl and that is alright with me. Anytime I can see my husband look at Grace like he does, it makes my heart melt and know all is good in the world. He is such a good Dad and Grace can sense that. They are buddies and I LOVE that!!!

So in closing I will try to be a better blogger and stay caught up. Hope you enjoy what is to come!!!

Perfect Weekend

2010-06-27T20:00:00.003-05:00

Jamie and I had a wonderful weekend. It flew by and was so relaxing. Friday night we got a babysitter (thanks Stephen) and went to Tony's for dinner. We ate some yummy white chicken nachos (they are sooooo good), had salads, and shared some chicken wings. We went home stuffed and not one complaint.

Saturday-Jamie and his brother went golfing in the morning and when he got home we headed across the street to the pool. We stayed for about two hours until Grace was begging for her cup and something to eat. We swung by good old McDonald's and got some chicken nuggets for all three of us. We ate and then took a long nap. We started watching the movie "Valentines Day" and then Jamie headed back to our room to take a nap and then Grace begged me to hold her. Before I knew it she was asleep in my arms. I love those moments. We took a couple hour nap and then hung out at the house. In the evening we stopped by Qdoba's and we got a snack and took my brother, Sam, home from work. We had originally said that we were going to go to Ted Drew's but we were stuffed from eating that we passed.

Today we just went grocery shopping, napped, and enjoyed our time hanging out as a family. I love this little family of mine. Can I mention that Grace has been Jamie's little shadow this weekend and wants to be by him at all time. Jamie said it is not so flattering anymore. Ha ha!! Daddy's little girl she is! He is such a great dad. I love it and can't wait to have more children with him.

Father's Day

2010-06-22T02:28:00.006-05:00

Happy Father's Day!!!

I am so lucky that I have some amazing men in my life. For one, I have a wonderful father. My dad has been there for me thru thick and thin. He is a man that doesn't show that much affection but shows love in his actions and doings. He has taught me so much and helped Jamie and I in so many ways. He is a FABULOUS grandpa and loves Gracie to death and let me tell you the feeling is mutual. Grace doesn't know we excist when she is around her Paw Paw. I love my Dad very much and pray each and every day that the Lord keeps him healthy and happy for years to come.

As for Jamie, he is the best Daddy that Gracie could have ever asked for. He is so patient and loving to her. He does so much for her that I don't know how I could manage without his help. Grace is in love with Jamie. He is a better person now that he is a Dad. I think that they have brought out the best in each other. I can honestly say that because of how great Jamie is as a father that it has made me strive harder to be a better mother to Grace.

So I could go on and on, but I will stop. Jamie thank you again for being such a great man and father- YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!!

For Father's Day, Jamie had asked to go boating so off went to Mark Twain Lake. We had a great time and really enjoyed ourselves. We took Grace and she was awesome. Jamie deserves so much more than just a silly trip to the lake to show him how much we appreciate everything he does for us.

PS- Unfortunately that morning we just got up and left- no showers or anything. So Jamie said don't dare take my picture=( I didn't even want one of me so I can't blame him.

Father's Day

2010-06-18T03:44:00.003-05:00

I can't wait for Father's Day this year. I want to do something special for Jamie. He is such a great Dad to Grace and I want to show him how much we appreciate him. I plan on going to my Mom's for a barbecue on Sunday and hope Jamie will be able to come with us. He is a man that buys for himself throughout the year so it is so hard to buy for him on special occasions. I love you Jamie. Thank you for being such a great Dad.

FYI- Father's Day is so close to my heart now since I had Grace the day before Father's Day in 2008. It was so neat to see Jamie hold his brand new daughter on Fathers Day!!!!!

Grace's 2nd Birthday Party

2010-06-18T03:36:00.006-05:00

We had a small family party for Grace on Sunday. It was so much nicer this year than last because we hadn't invited so many people so it was much more intimate. The kids played on the bounce house and then played in the sprinkler. My friend Rachel brought over her plastic pool and all the kids got in there together- one Hot Mess!!!! She got tons of nice toys and clothes. She wore a cute little embroidered cupcake dress. All of my siblings including the little ones all got her some type of nice gift. It was so sweet of them!!! It was nice to be able to enjoy myself watching her play at her party. Happy birthday sweet little girl!!!

Grace is TWO

2010-06-18T03:17:00.005-05:00

My little baby is no longer a baby she is officially a toddler!!!!!! She turned two on Monday. Here are some briefs on what she has been up to:

She is talking more and more, like three to four word sentences.

She throws fits all day, and has a temper out of this world.

She loves to take her shoes on and off herself.

She kinda is starting to get interested in potty training.

She loves getting in the pool, she would stay in it all day if I would let her.

She loves her babysitter and the kids that are over there during the day.

She loves her MaMa and PaPa more than me I think!! LOL!

She plays with the oddest little things around the house and has no interest in toys.

She has her Daddy wrapped around her fingers.

She loves food, the girl can eat!!!

She doesn't like cleaning up her mess.

She loves to be outside playing.

She is "scared" all the time, and will tell you a thousand times too!!!

She wants to sleep with us now- Stinks, we had her sleeping in her bed from day one and now She wants to be right next to us because she is "scared".

She rules our house and we would take twenty more of her.

Grace is only two but I couldn't imagine my world without her. She has a heart as big as Texas. I love spending time with her. She is exhausting to be with all day because she is such high maintenance but when she is asleep I am secretly thinking I wish she would wake up. I love her more than anything. My husband is head over heals for her, and it makes me love him that much more. Grace is going to be one hell of a big sister one day because she will teach him or her some of her little tricks!!!!!

Day Off

2010-06-18T02:51:00.005-05:00

Today I took Grace to the babysitters because she hadn't been at all this week and I wanted my babysitter to get her hours/ money in. I dropped her off at 0830 and came home went to take a nap because I had to work tonight. I woke up at 3pm!!!! I couldn't believe that I slept all day. I was so mad at myself. I had planned on taking a little nap and then spending the rest of the day cleaning and folding laundry. I didn't set an alarm because I never in a million years would have dreamed that I would have slept all day.

I picked up Grace from Ms. Judy's and we met Jamie for dinner. We went to O'Charley's because I had a really great coupon and Grace eats free. She was a MONSTER!!! She was refusing to sit in the high chair and climbing out of it, screaming, and crying. Just terrible!!! It was nice to sit and see Jamie before I had to go to work but Grace ruined our dinner. Even with her screaming and acting like an idiot I still think she is cute as a bug.

The Little Gym and Pool Time

2010-06-18T01:42:00.005-05:00

Today I took Grace to the Little Gym to play. She was very shy and "scared" at first but after a little while boy did she warm up. She played her little heart out. She ended up being the demonstrator twice she did so good. She just followed the other kids and did everything that these kids have been doing for the last few months on her first visit. We got into the car and she was asleep before we even hit the first red light.

Later in the afternoon we went across the street to the pool and had so much fun. It is an older pool that has nothing flashy but it was so easy to watch her there. They have a kiddy pool that is fenced off and she had no choice but to sit in the kiddy pool and play with her toys. She lost her balance in the pool and couldn't stand back up and I was two steps away from her wathcing her every move and the life guard jumped in. I was mortified that he jumped i like that but glad that they are watching the kids that close. All in all, she had a great time.

Jamie and I went to LaPachangas for dinner. Grace was being a handful to say the least. She was loud and crying. Jamie took her outside at one point. I got some great pictures of her today. I love my little girl!!!

In two weeks

2010-06-02T19:06:00.004-05:00

In two weeks Grace will be turning two........................ DEPRESSING!!!!!

I can't get over how time goes by so fast!!! It is nauseating to see how fast Grace is growing up. She makes everyday interesting over here. She is so special to us, and makes me smile all the time. I love that she is a product of Jamie and I- our creation!!! She is so many different things, so much in fact that it is hard to pinpoint how she is going to be when she gets older. She has MAJOR personality. My babysitter tells me she is just the sweetest most best behaved little one that she has- Don't believe that!!!!!!! She is loved be all. She rules my parents house when she is over there. She just makes me heart melt when she screams the names of my siblings out loud. She has forever changed me and taught me how to love and care for someone.

So in two weeks we will be celebrating a life that makes me celebrate everyday. She is our joy and happiness. She has made me love my husband in a new light and respect more than ever. Thank you Grace Adeline!!!!

Wordless Wendsday

2010-06-02T19:05:00.003-05:00

I love this little wild-crazy-sweet-stubborn-funny-independent little girl of mine!!!!

Baby Fever

2010-06-02T18:58:00.004-05:00

I have so many friends right now that are pregnant. As I hear them talk about the sex and the cute little things that they have had to buy for them, it is making me have a little baby fever!!! I am just such a planner that I try to control and analyze all situations and I can't decide when is the best time to have more kids. We know we want more. We know we want them sooner than later. We know that we love being parents. We know that Grace needs to have siblings. We know we would like to have another baby after we move. So there is my hesitation- What if it takes another year or two to sell my home and then I can't get pregnant or it takes a really long time??? Does everything happen for a reason and work itself out magically? Should we live for the moment and go ahead and go for it??

Being a grown up is serious stuff!!!!!!

Camping, Boating, Swimming- OH MY!!!

2010-06-02T18:50:00.002-05:00

I hope you all had a fabulous Memorial Day!!!! I sure did!!!

We went to Mark Twain Lake for a little camping and boating trip. We took Grace, and my Dad and brothers went. I couldn't have asked for such a cool little girl. She was amazing. She loved the boat and kept her life jacket on like a good little girl the entire time while in the boat. She loved getting out and going swimming. She just played and played at the campsite. I could go on and on and still could not describe how good she was- OKAY HAVE I BEAT THIS TO DEATH YET???

I have never been to Mark Twain before and will from here on out plan on going back, it was perfect. Just two hours away, great campsites- very family oriented, and a great lake. What more could a girl ask for. When I was younger my Grandma Nadine lived at Table Rock so we spent many of weeks and weekends at the lake that left some of the fondest memories from my childhood. Also, my hubby Jamie loves the lake. So I know that we will be going back making some memories for my little girl!!!! Gosh how I love my life!!!!

Here are a few pictures of my little sweetie!!

Another year, another graduation......

2010-05-25T22:18:00.004-05:00

This weekend was jam packed with excitement and craziness. My sister graduated from high school Saturday. Jamie and I went over to my parents house Friday evening and Saturday evening helping out to get ready for her big graduation party. Saturday was her graduation ceremony and it was at the Chafitz Center at Slu. It seemed so rushed and not as special as it has in the past. I got a little emotional when I saw the graduates walk to their seats. I don't think that they reinforce to these kids that these are the best years of their lives and to enjoy them. I just felt this strong sense that I am getting older watching all my siblings grow up.

We all went out to dinner to Steak and Shake afterwards. Anytime a whole bunch of Fried's get together it is a whole bunch of fun and crazy!!! I had to sit in between all of the babies. Grace did phenomenal, she ate every bit of food on her plate and was just plain sweet there. While we were at the ceremony my AWESOME friend Angela watched her. I was so nervous because she has never went over to Angie's before but she said that she did good and wasn't to sad. Saturday night we stayed over at my parents until 0200- with GRACE!!! You would have never known that we were there that late, she played and tried "to help".

Sunday, I volunteered to pickup the food for my mom at Pshgettis and the cake at Sam's and then headed over to the party. Grace wore this simple lime green cotton dress, her hair was in these little piggy tales with pick bows on each one, and a little bracelet around her wrist- She looked like a little angel!!! I just wanted to scoop her up all day because she was tooooo cute. She had a blast playing with the other kids and in the yard.

All in all, we had a wonderful fun filled family weekend. I looked at Jamie as I seen him interact with some of my family and it makes my heart melt that he is becoming like a real "brother and son in law". My family respects and values him and I love that. My brothers look up to him and my dad is starting to talk about him as he is his own son now. I LOVE that so much. There is nothing more in this world that I want than my husband to be treated well from my family. It just makes my heart warm and fuzzy. I would want the same for me, so I am glad that they treat him like they do.

Summer Colds

2010-05-19T11:15:00.002-05:00

The last few days I have been suffering from a real nasty summer cold/sinus infection. I started taking some old antibiotics that we had in the cabinet and I'm starting to feel better. Grace has had a fever the last two nights. Monday night she fell asleep in my arms in the rocking chair at 6:30 then woke up at 9:30 drenched in sweat burning up. I brought her in my room and rocked her and she ended up falling asleep in between Jamie and I. We never let Grace sleep in our room so anytime she does we kinda enjoy having her in there. Not that I wanted Grace to be feeling bad, but I love how she wanted to be held and loved on. She has always been so hyper and never stays in one place longer than two seconds so I enjoy having her in my arms. When she is sleeping in my arms and I can feel her heart beat and hear her little breaths all is well in the world- it is Heaven!!!

We bought her a potty chair yesterday and we hope maybe that will get her excited about potty training. We have been working with her, but she hasn't went on the potty yet. Jamie takes her in the bathroom and sits her on the toilet and it melts my heart that he is such a good daddy to her. She loves him to pieces and the feeling is mutual because he eats it up. She is definitely a daddy's girl but that is okay because it makes me love my husband even more.

I have been starting to plan Grace's birthday party. I can't believe that she is going to be two. It makes me sick to think of how fast time flies. It seems like yesterday that I was pregnant dreaming about what it was going to be like to have a child and be a mother. We want to throw her a great party because we want to celebrate her life. She brings so much joy to our life!!!! So far this is what we have planned- We are doing a cupcake theme party for her. I am going to have tons of pretty cupcakes, Spaghetti's to eat, and some games.

Not a good day today

2010-05-14T15:20:00.002-05:00

Today the weather has been very dreary and rainy so we have been staying in- No fun!! I did decide to take my trash out. Grace was laying on the couch resting watching Sesame Street before it was her nap time, and I told her I would be right back that I was going to take the trash out. Mind you that she did not throw a fit to come with me or anything, she just stayed laying on the couch.

When coming back from taking the trash out, I go to open the door and drum roll ----- It was locked. Grace locked me out of the house. I tried to get her to open it, of course she couldn't. Sam my brother had by chance stayed the night before and was sleeping in my bedroom but he didn't here me knocking. Every time I knocked she would get more and more freaked out. I went down stairs to my neighbors and she let me borrow a credit card and the car burglar that I am was able to pick the door. I open the door and she is sitting on the couch crying.

Lesson of the day learned!!!

Botanical Gardens

2010-05-14T15:03:00.003-05:00

We went to Botanical Gardens last week for the first time this year and visited the wonderful Children's Garden. If you are new to reading my blog, you must know how much I love taking Grace to the Botanical Gardens and can't wait to years to come to see Grace just loving the park more and more.

This visit Grace saw the sprinklers on and that was the end of the it- this is was she was the entire time and loved every second of it. I got some great pictures of her playing in the water. She loves the water so much. I am thinking that this summer is going to be a blast.

After the Botanical Gardens we stopped by Harter's Bakery to get some sweets. I ended up having them design a cake for Jamie to thank him for watching Grace while I would be in the Bahamas. It ended up really cute. Grace was a maniac in there asking for donuts. I have NO idea where she got that from, we don't even eat donuts much. Anyway the baker thought she was so cute she gave her a bag of donuts for free- she is that cute all!!!! It was a wonderful day with my little sweetheart.

Bahmama Weekend

2010-05-14T15:01:00.002-05:00

Last weekend I went to the Bahamas with my girlfriends from work. It was a blast!!! We went on a three day cruise which stopped in Nassau. In Nassau we went to the Atlantis- It was unbelievable!!!! I have never seen such a gorgeous site in my life. We spent the day in the water park and had so much fun. We went down the slides, went on the river rapid ride, ate lunch in the amazing cafe, and just enjoy ourselves. It was SO much fun!!

I was really bummed that I missed Mother's Day and was missing Jamie and Grace like crazy. Jamie picked me up from the airport and we went to pick Grace up from the sitters house and she was in the front yard playing- She saw me in the car and started screaming "Mama Mama". It was so good to see her that it brought tears to my eyes. Jamie had some cute cards waiting for me from Grace and him for Mother's Day and he cleaned the house from one end to the other. What an amazing gift. Also, thanks Mom for taking Grace to the babysitter for me so Jamie could get me to the airport- You are the best!!

All in all, it was a wonderful weekend and Mother's Day. Here are a few of the censored pictures from the weekend. Hope all of you Mother's out there had a great weekend. I plan on doing something special for my Mom since I missed seeing her this weekend, and she happens to be the best Mom and Grandma we could ever ask for.

Birthday Blitz

2010-04-13T21:53:00.004-05:00

We had a busy and very fun weekend. Saturday Jamieson and I took Grace to our friends Marjie and Jeremy's daughter Madison's first birthday party. We were only able to stay for two hours because we had my nephews first birthday party later that afternoon. Madison has grown so much since we seen her last. She is so skinny and cute. It was fun to visit with everyone but as usual the host and hostess were super busy.

My nephew Collin's first birthday party was a lot of fun. Everyone was there except my sister Sarah which she had prom to go to that evening. They had barbecue and cake. We were all outside and it was about the most gorgeous day to be out. I got Collin a play center/water activity table that all the kids flocked to play at. It was so funny seeing all of them play together.

Sunday, Jamie and I had some major cleaning to take care of

Willoughby Farms

2010-04-13T01:59:00.003-05:00

The weekend before Easter I took Grace to a portrait party. We paid a flat session fee and she gave us a disc with copyrights. The photographer had chicks, bunnies, and a barn- What else do you need!!!! That morning it was very cold and rainy and Grace was in a bad mood, but she got some excellent shots. Here are a few previews of my little cutie!!!

Easter Festivites

2010-04-11T19:01:00.006-05:00

Since I am soooo behind on blogging, I thought I would make one big post to catch up on how Easter went over at the Starck home.

Our first Easter activity was at our church, they had a egg hunt and bible story. We let Grace sit at the front of the church with the other children for the children's message, BIG MISTAKE!! She lasted about two minutes up there, and the entire time she was laughing and waving to the entire congregation. She did like the egg hunt. Each child was able to hunt twenty eggs a piece and if we pointed them out she would put them in her little basket.

For Jamie's family Easter get together a few of us just got together and we ate dinner at Bandanas. I forgot to take some pictures because we were in the restaurant but it was a nice time. Jamie's mom put together such a great Easter basket for Grace. She got her the movie "Finding Nemo" which I had been wanting to get for Grace and lots of other goodies. We had a nice dinner and came home that evening and cleaned.

Easter Sunday we attempted to take Grace to church with us. It was a DISASTER. Grace and church- not a good combo. The nursery was closed, I guess because of the holiday and we attempted to let her sit with us and she lasted about a whole two minutes. She just can't ever sit still, its terrible!!! We ended up sitting in the nursery with her playing and listening to the service thru the intercom thing.

Easter afternoon we went to my Aunt Janet's. All of my family was there and it was nice to see everyone. The food was yummy and Grace got some awesome Easter baskets. My mom made her a basket with all of her favorite things in it, peanut butter crackers, animal cookies, peeps, a clipboard, new jeans, shirt, and Elmo pajamas. My aunts made just one giant basket for her and it had all sorts of fun stuff in it. This little girl is soooo spoiled. They did a huge egg hunt and she was doing great until she realized that she could open them and there was candy in them because after that she just wanted to sit in the middle of the yard and eat candy. I had to change her outfit and I got some wonderful pictures of her.

I love Easter, I love the meaning behind it, I love being with family, and most of all I love making all of these wonderful memories for my daughter.

Busy Week

2010-03-26T19:25:00.003-05:00

Sorry I have been missing in action this week. What a week its been!!! I literally worked every other night, that is terrible on a night shift worker but oh well its over. Some things that we did this week:

Play and Pray
Our church had a play and pray group and we took Grace. I don't know exactly what she thought of it but it was cute watching her interact with the other kiddos. They sang songs, made a cross, had story time, and ate a snack. Jamie went with me and I love that he is so involved with us. He is the best husband EVER!!!

Our Anniversary
March 24th was our three year anniversary. My mom picked Grace up from Ms. Judy's so we could be alone for the evening. Jamie and I decided to make dinner versus going out. Jamie made kabobs, steak, gourmet augratin potatoes, and we had bread. We had some wine and sat outside on the deck and talked. It was such a nice evening!!

Well we got big plans for this weekend, I will post pictures later.

Bring on Easter!!!

The Great Date Night 1

2010-03-15T09:48:00.005-05:00

I had blogged before about participating in the Great Date Night, well we went on our first one. Jamie and I went to Bar Louie for dinner. We had a really yummy meal. Then it was raining when we left so that put a damper on what our second part was. We had thought about going bowling but on a Saturday night it would have been impossible to get a lane. So we took a drive and talked. Then we stopped by Schnucks to get each other a $2 dessert. I got Jamie a Greek pastry because I know he has never tried one. He got me a fudge brownie. We sat in the car and ate out dessert before we went to pick our little sweetie up from her Grandparents house.

We had such a nice time, and think that "Great date experiment" is a phenomenal idea.

A new addition to the family

2010-03-15T09:44:00.002-05:00

Jamie won a recent argument over at the Starck home. We are the proud new owner of a little kitty cat. She is a cutie!! Jamie named her Penny short for Penelope. Wish us luck, the last few days have went okay. Poor Grace doesn't understand that she doesn't want to play. She sees Grace coming and runs off instantly.

We got accepted

2010-03-13T03:32:00.003-06:00

We got a post card in the mail yesterday that Grace got accepted into our church's Children's Day Out program. It was so cute and official looking, ha ha!! She will be going starting in August every Thursday and we even got her in the early bird program so Jamie could take her when he heads into work that day. My two girlfriends children will be in there with Grace so it will nice to have familiar faces with her.

Sick Baby

2010-03-13T03:28:00.005-06:00

I got one sick little baby at home. She has had fevers, cough, congestion, runny nose, emesis, and just feeling lousy.

My heart has been so sad for her seeing her so pathetic. She has been laying around the house, sleeping on our bed (she never does that) and laying on the floor randomly falling asleep.

I hope she gets better real soon, because I can't take this sad little face anymore.

Here are a few pictures that I took at the doctors office.

Bridal Shower

2010-03-13T02:48:00.003-06:00

Tuesday I was suppose to be on call during the day from 7am until 3pm. My work surprisingly didn't need me to come in so I was off the hook to play with Grace all day. It was rainy and gloomy out and I needed to run some errands. We went out to lunch just her and I and it was so fun. We went to Qdoba's and Grace sat there and ate her entire kids meal. She did so good, I was so excited.

Then next we went to Walmart to pick up a few things. I got to tell you, I am a Target girl and they just built a brand new Walmart by us and it was so quiet in there and they had some cute stuff. We just took our time and browsed. I got a cake that I needed to bring to a bridal shower for that night. They totally misspelled what i wanted iced on the cake, but it was funny.

Julia hosted the bridal shower at her new house and it was just a bunch if us there, it was so much fun to hangout with all the girls and not be at work. I drank some wine and ate good food while Jamie had Grace at home, it was a relaxing night!!!

Gosh it feels good to get outside....

2010-03-13T02:23:00.003-06:00

Wednesday the weather got up to the 70's and it was so sunny. So sunny in fact that it hurt your eyes. Grace and I headed next door to the park. We first stopped in at the Farm side and then made way to the playground. We have been reading some farm animal books to Grace and she knows some of the animals and what sound they make, so it was funny to see her with them.

The playground was packed!!! I bet there were a hundred kids playing, which made it difficult for poor Grace which she usually has the playground to herself. Both my friend Julia and Laura were there with there little ones. We swung on the swings for awhile and then Grace walked off and grabbed my hand was ready to go.

When we got home it was too entirely beautiful to go inside so we went for a LONG walk. We went all through my subdivision and up to an adjoining one. Grace held my hand and walk along side of me like a little angel. When we finally made it back to my condo we came inside to get something to drink and then played some more out on the deck.

She played and played and I sat in the chair outside getting some sun. Grace came up to me and I held her and she put her arms around me and then........ She puked from my neck all the way down me. I could have died it was so gross and out of no where. I instantly got us cleaned up and showered. My poor little Grace got sick just like that.

What a weekend

2010-03-06T23:08:00.006-06:00

This weekend was great!!! It started off by me going to a baby mania consignment sale with my friend Jaime. We bought so much stuff and had a great time. I found the cutest summer dresses, swimsuits, and fall clothes for Grace. After that was over I stopped by my mom's house to see Grace. My Mom invited Grace to stay the night with her Friday evening because Jamie went into work some over time Saturday morning and I had to work Friday night shift. When I walked in the door she squealed with excitement ( F.Y. I. best feeling for a Mom), and I was sure happy to see her. My mom had my nephews and they were playing together.

Saturday afternoon when Grace was napping my brother Sheldon watched Grace for us and we went and had a quick dinner at Chilli's. We had a nice time, and came home to a still sleeping baby. Then we stayed home for the rest of the evening and played and played.

Sunday morning we went to church. Today was a big day the first time our daughter went to church. We usually go by ourselves and drop her off at my parents house. We want Christ to play an important part in Grace's life and help us mold her so we were giddy today thinking about how exciting it was. We should have known our strong willed daughter because she made it perfectly clear that she wasn't going to sit still and quiet just because we were in church- it was a disaster!!! Next week she is going to play in the nursery so we can focus on church.

After church we went home and Jamie barbecued us dinner. Grace LOVED it!!! After dinner we went to the Magic House. Our church rented it out for the evening and it was super nice. Jamie was giving me trouble about even going saying that Grace was to young but he was so wrong and I loved it!!! Grace had a great time, Jamie even had a great time. We both played as much as Grace did. I touched the magnetic ball and Grace's hair stuck up so high it was SO funny. After the Magic House, Jamie and my brother Sam went to the movies together so we headed over to my parents house. We walked in and Grace was so happy to see everyone. She rules the roost over there and they love her to pieces. Grace plays like over there like it is her house. Its nice for her to have Grandparents like them that are so involved in her life and love her like they do. It warms my heart to see the way that my daughter loves my family.

Anyway, it was a fabulous weekend. Hope everyone had the same.

Lady Bug Watcher

2010-03-06T23:01:00.003-06:00

Have you ever just had one of those amazing nights???? A night where you really didn't do anything special but the entire night was just remarkable.... Tonight I played on the floor with Grace, we laughed so hard that I cried (and maybe peed in my pants!!)

She ran around me in circles, we danced, laughed, sang, and just played!!!! She laughed so hard as we watched a lady bug fly around in the living room, it was the funniest thing I have ever seen.

As I go to bed tonight, my heart is incredibly full. Full of love and happiness, I ask myself daily how did I get so lucky and fortunate to have all I have. Grace kissed me and wrapped her arms around my neck this evening and I thought my heart was going to explode with happiness.

I LOVE being her mother!!!!!!!!!

Sunday Funday

2010-02-28T06:09:00.002-06:00

Boy has it been an extremely busy week. I worked full time hours at St. Marys, picked up an extra few hours at Shriner's, and then graciously went in to St. Marys last night to help because they had a call in. With that being said, Grace and I really didn't do anything fun this week. She went to her babysitters twice this week. She played at my Mom's house with my nephews Shawn and Collin on Friday. She stayed the night at my parents house on Saturday while I went into work and Jamie spent some time with my brother Sam.

I vow I am going to do something very fun with Grace today!!!! Maybe Incredible Pizza, The Magic House, or Monkey Joe's but she is going to have a great day with Jamie and I as soon as I wake up from taking a little nap.

I will post pictures later. Wish us much needed and deserved fun!!!

Bath Time

2010-02-22T18:53:00.005-06:00

Grace loves getting in the bath....

She loves putting her alphabet foams on the walls.

She loves drinking the "clean" water.

She loves pouring water from one cup to another.

She runs down the hallway heading to the bathroom when I just mention getting in the shower or bath, in hopes to get in.

I love sitting next to the bath watching her play!!!!!!

Laundry is my Nemesis

2010-02-16T16:17:00.004-06:00

Today I took Grace to Ms. Judy's so I could get a few things done around the house after our lazy relaxing weekend.

I had EIGHT loads of laundry to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I turned on my satellite radio and just folded away. In between loads I cleaned, dusted, vacuumed, etc. I accomplished everything I needed to do and more. I can get so much stuff done when I don't have Grace Adeline here with me. Is that mean to say?

Jamie was off the entire weekend, had Monday off, and took a half day today. So we have had tons of quality time home together- I love it!!!!!!!!!!!!! We are going to participate in the "Great Date Experiment" its about keeping the spice in your married life. I will keep you posted on how it goes. We will start in the first week of March.

Valentine's Day

2010-02-14T15:34:00.002-06:00

I wanted to wish everyone a great Valentines Day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am praying today for my friends that haven't yet found their perfect Valentine. I am so blessed to have such a wonderful man, husband, and best friend in my life. I only hope that we stay as happy for years to come as we are now.

We went out to dinner last night to celebrate Valentines Day. My mom had been babysitting Grace all day and she stayed over there while we ate. Jamie and I decided not to do any gifts since we are saving. We did exchange cards. Jamie got Grace a cute Mickey Mouse card and a Mickey Mouse cookie. It almost made me have tears in my eyes when I seen her little card and cookie all made out and signed by Jamie, he is such a great Dad!!

Grace got some other goodies from her Grandma JoAnne. Rather than going out to dinner last night we are just relaxing and spending the day together today.

Update with grace

2010-02-14T10:13:00.003-06:00

Grace is 19 Months now!!!

What is new with her:

She is talking so much- she probably has a 60 word vocabulary
She is obsessed with Sesame Street, she loves Elmo so much!! I catch her talking to them in her bed when she is suppose to be going to sleep saying "hi Elmo, night night Elmo". Sesame Street is her favorite show to watch on TV.
She continues to love her Daddy so much- she can't get enough of him
She now tries to say everyone of my siblings names and cried for Mama and Papa all the time.
She can count and say some of her ABC's
She goes to the babysitters house 2-3 times a week and loves it there.
She is 26lbs which is in the 64% for her weight and she is in the 94% for her height.
She eats anything and everything!!
She loves to have books read to her and is starting to really like puzzles.
She plays really good with other children.
She has so much energy!!!

I love her to pieces and she warms my heart several different times a day. She is stubborn and mean at times and then can turn around and smile and giggle and blow you a kiss at the same moment.

Vacation

2010-02-14T09:51:00.004-06:00

We recently went on a little weekend vacation. We left on a Friday morning and came back on a Monday. We flew to Orlando and then took a shuttle to Port Canaveral and left on a cruise from there. We went on Splendor of the Seas it is a Royal Caribbean boat. We took my sister to help with Grace. We got them their own room down the hall from us.

Our first stop was Nassau in the Bahamas and then Coco Cay. Coco Cay is an island that Royal Caribbean has bought that they use exclusively. It was gorgeous. The weather was so beautiful, Not to hot and breezy. Grace was not afraid of the ocean at all. She would go straight to it, walk by it and let her feet get wet and go all the way out to her knees. It was so precious to see her play in the sand and water. At Nassau we went to Black Beard Cay and stayed the day there it was beautiful and relaxing. At one point Grace went in front of all the beach chairs that everyone was sitting in and starting dancing to the Reggae music that was playing and everyone was clapping at her, it was so cute!!!!

Grace had a rough time on the boat. She was tired and crabby from when we got there until we got home. She loves to sleep in her own bed at night and she pretty much cried her self to sleep every night we were there. She went to sleep at 1230am on Friday night, 237am in Saturday night, and 1230am on Sunday night. It was rough!!!! Then come morning time she was so mad that we were waking her up to do things. She ate like a pig everyday and flirted with multiple waiters, staff, etc. We would walk in and people would say "Hi Grace!".

The flights were tough as well. We gave her Benadryl on the way down there and she slept in Jamie's arms the entire flight. The way home- Not so easy!!! All in all we had a wonderful time and made memories that I will never forget.

Shawn's 2nd Birthday

2010-01-21T12:14:00.005-06:00

Saturday we went to my nephews second birthday. It was at my brothers house. They had tons of their friends there and my family came. Grace hadn't seen him in awhile so she had fun playing. My Grandparents were there and it was nice to catch up with them. Here are a few pictures from that day.

Sesame Street Live

2010-01-21T12:07:00.005-06:00

We took Grace to Sesame Street Live, and she LOVED it! To say that she loved it is an absolute understatement, she was in total awe the entire time. We weren't sure if it was going to work out because of the weather, the forecast was calling for heavy snow to start the evening of the show.

We sat in the fourth row and the seats were amazing, I think that is what made the experience for her so cool. She would clap, dance, and scream to the music. Jamie bought her an Elmo doll when we first got there and she now sleeps with it every night.

27th Birthday

2010-01-06T16:06:00.003-06:00

Yikes yesterday was my 27th birthday. I don't feel twenty seven. It disturbs me how fast the time goes by. I feel like life is just passing us by before we know it. I am trying to make each and everyday special and count.

My mom had a little birthday party for me Sunday evening. She had chips and dip, pizza, cake, and ice cream. All of the kids were home and hung around to spend some time with me. Jamie and I love hanging out over at my parents house because there is always someone helping us keep an eye on Grace.

Yesterday on my actual birthday, Jamie and I went to LaPachanga's. It is a Mexican restaurant that we like. It is in a shopping plaza right next to my parents street so they kept her and we ate all alone. Before we went into the restaurant we stopped in Once Upon a Child, my second favorite store. Usually Jamie never goes in with me but since it was my birthday I quilted him into it, and he helped me pick out things for her for next summer. I don't think he could believe how cheap the prices were. It was precious to see his face when he said "Oh we should get this for her, she would look so pretty in that, etc". He is so crazy about her and such a great dad. I love it!!

It was the most perfect birthday!!!

Renovations

2010-01-04T14:36:00.002-06:00

Early last week our refrigerator went out. It went out the day after I restocked with everything a small army would need!! We went to Sears to pick out another one and pretty much everyone we wanted they had said couldn't be in till Friday or Monday because of New Years. That wasn't going to work for us, we needed one that night!!

Finally I said can we have this refrigerator that I am looking at right now, can we pack this up and take it home and the lady said "oh you want a floor model you can only take a floor model if it is on clearance". So we looked around and the only ones on clearance were fancy shiny stainless steel ones. Oh darn imagine my dismay that we were going to have to upgrade and get such a nice one. We ended up getting an awesome deal on it. So were checking out and it came to our minds that Oh no now nothing is going to match. We ended up getting a new refrigerator, microwave, and dishwasher that evening. My dad had already gotten us a new stove for Christmas so that saved us some money.

So within the next few weeks we plan on - drum roll- getting new cabinets, counter tops, and back splash. Our kitchen is so outdated and I think that even thought this will be pricey it will be well worth it when we go to resell next year. So wish us luck and I will take pictures of all the appliances as they get delivered and installed, until then I will be enjoying my new beautiful refrigerator!!!

What's new with Gracie

2009-12-31T20:12:00.004-06:00

Grace is EIGHT-TEEN MONTHS old already=(

How can that be seems like yesterday that I had her.

What is new with my little girl:

She is saying three words at a time

Has a more extensive vocabulary

Can play in a group with other kids her age

Can climb on the coffee table like a champ!!

Stays in her bed, she isn't even attempting to climb out yet

Drinks out of a cup all the time, no baby bottles for her

Counts to 6 skipping 4, says A-B-C

Loves "El-bow" and "Ab-ise" which are Elmo and Abby Caddaby more than life itself

She can and will at times sit and watch a segment of a show if it is "Sesame Street" without getting up

She loves to give kisses

Loves my mom and sister- sometimes so much that it makes my heart jealous. She can say their names and calls out for them frequently. "Maw Maw and Sar-ah", she calls for them in the car, in her bed at bedtime, and even goes to the front door calling them. It is very cute and some what annoying- Ha ha ha!!

Loves books, loves them, loves them!!!

She is so beautiful. Her smile and energy is contagious. She has started throwing fits- she does it all throws her body down on the ground, screams, kicks, and even pulls hair. I am asking God for guidance on how to deal with this! I don't know what my life would be like without my precious baby.

New Year's 2009

2009-12-31T19:57:00.004-06:00

What an outstanding year I have had. I don't know how they can get any better. I am so blessed beyond belief. I have such an amazing husband and daughter. I have the best parents one could ever ask for.

Things I want for us this year:

1) I pray for a healthy year for my friends and family

2) To continue to try to spend every possible moment I can with my daughter. These years are going by fast and she will be grown before I know it. I love being a mother more than anything, and want to give Grace the world. I want to teach her about God, and help her grow into a wonderful child.

3) To be a better wife and friend to Jamie- He is my heart!! I couldn't make it without him and feel so fortunate that he is my best friend. I could be better and know in my heart that I can try.

4) I would like to lose some weight and get into shape. I have a goal of losing 30 pounds and then I might try to do something special.

5) Continue to pay off debt. Jamie and I have worked so hard the last two years and paid off every credit card that we own but now were working on paying off our vehicles and student loans. Wish us luck.

6) Being a better daughter. My parents are so good to us and we wouldn't be able to make it with Grace if it wasn't for all the help they have given us, I would like to continue to do nice things for them to show them how appreciative we are for them.

7) Be a better person in general. I consider myself a good person, I am considerate and caring but I could always be better. I want to do more random acts of kindness. Give more to my church. Become a better christian.

So I have big plans for us, and hope that I can do all of these things!!!

Christmas 2009

2009-12-31T19:45:00.006-06:00

I am so sad, Christmas has come and gone. We had a wonderful Christmas. We went to my parents house on Christmas Eve and had a yummy dinner- Ham, potato casserole, green bean casserole, shrimp, pasta, rolls, cupcakes, and rice krispie treats. It was so laid back and low key. We ate dinner, opened presents, and sat around and watched Grace play. My parents got Grace tons of new clothes, a Elmo robe, and a new book. My Mom and Dad got Jamie and I a new stove for when we re due our kitchen. I love Christmas Eve it is so much fun being with my family and just spending time together.

Christmas day was awesome. I loved playing Santa for Grace. After she went to bed on Christmas Eve, Jamie and I got all her little presents out and finished doing all the little things we needed to do. When she woke up on Christmas we walked her out to the tree and at first she was crabby because it was early but then when we started helping her open the presents she started having fun. She got tons from Santa. Her favorite present was a little purse. I have attached a video of her opening her gifts. Christmas with Jamie's family got cancelled due to the weather so we stayed home all day and relaxed as a family. Grace played with her new toys and we watched movies. Being a parent is the best!!! I couldn't of had more fun watching her face and seeing the excitement in her eyes. I think she is the best gift from God!! I can't wait for Christmas's to come.

FYI- The picture of her in the red was her eating a red cupcake after doing such a great job eating Christmas Eve dinner. Bath time was next!!

Play and Pray

2009-12-09T01:37:00.003-06:00

Grace attended her first play and pray this evening. Jamie and I had planned on taking her but our condo association had a emergency meeting this evening at the same time so we couldn't go. Grace was going to have to skip it but my sister took her and my dad picked them up and took them home and watched Grace for the rest of the evening.

Sarah said that Grace did great. She said she kept to herself the majority of the time, but tried to color with the rest of the kids. They made a craft which was a bracelet with a jingle bell on it. My mom came over to visit Grace and she said that Grace was just showing off the bracelet and shaking it, that it was cracking everyone up. I hope that we are able to attend more of the events in the future.

Adopt a child

2009-12-09T01:35:00.005-06:00

Sunday at church, Jamie and I decided to each pick a needy child to donate a Christmas gift to this year. I picked a nine year old girl, and Jamie picked a nine year old boy. We plan on going shopping for the gift this evening. I can't wait, I think it is going to be fun picking something out that you know someone is going to be so excited and grateful to receive. Any ideas on what nine year-olds like would be appreciated!!!

Our Lady of the Snow Shrine

2009-12-09T01:30:00.006-06:00

We took Grace to see the Christmas lights last weekend. She was in utter amazement. It was such a neat feeling watching her see and be so excited about something for the first time. She pretty much screamed her head off and pointed the entire time.

We got out of the car and let her ride on a donkey. She pretty much wasn't to sure about it, but the amazing dad that Jamie is walked right next to her the entire time. He said that she giggled once. After the donkey experience, we fed the goats some carrots. It was soooooo cold that evening so we hurried up and got back in the car to see the rest of the lights. We plan on taking her somewhere each weekend to see the lights. Hooray for the holidays!!

Bounce House

2009-12-09T01:27:00.006-06:00

The day after Thanksgiving I bought Grace a bounce house that was on sale. I thought well we better open it up and test it out to make sure it works. I took it over to my moms to let her try it out. I had to stand right by her the entire time and she mainly just wanted to play on the slide.

It took less than a minute to put it up, and was pretty easy to put back in the box. Here are a few pictures of her playing in it.

Times a Ticking

2009-12-01T01:56:00.003-06:00

I still haven't put my Christmas decorations up. I had to work over the weekend, and I plan on putting them up this afternoon. I am very nervous about Grace getting into my tree. She has already broke several of my moms ornaments at her house. I LOVE decorating the tree and house and told Jamie last night that I was said that I wanted to get started putting it up asap, because Christmas is such a special time of the year and comes and goes before you know it.

Last night when we were driving home from the babysitters it was dark out and Grace, just had her finger pointing and saying "Ahw Ohw". It is super exciting just knowing that your child is seeing something new for the first time. I love every moment that I get to spend with Grace and she makes everyday of life so exciting. As soon as I get my Christmas decorations put up I will post some pictures of them.

Bye Bye Weekend Option

2009-12-01T01:47:00.003-06:00

Today is a great day, for the fact that I worked my last shift as a weekend option shift nurse.

Oh weekend option shift you were good to me while it lasted, but it is time for me to move on. Sadly to say, I will not miss you. Thanks for the good times and I will never forget you!!!!

In all seriousness, it worked out great when I had a little baby. I never had to pay for daycare, kept Grace home with us, and made fantastic money. I just want to have a more normal life and be able to spend time with my husband and family.

Starting this week I will be a CSN on my nursing division. A CSN stands for clinical support nurse. Fancy title for a charge nurse. The majority of the time that I will work, I won't take patients, just be the support person for the floor. Make assignments for the floor, help the other nurses, etc. I am EXTREMELY nervous about the position because it is very stressful because at times you have to be the bad guy and they're all types of random things that come up that have to be dealt with. It will be a challenging new role but very exciting.

Wish me luck I will need it!!!

Black Friday

2009-12-01T01:40:00.002-06:00

I had to work Thanksgiving night so when I got off work at 730 in the morning, I stopped in at Toys R Us. I did find some really good deals. I was able to finish all my Christmas shopping for Gracie and my nephews and nieces.

After Toys R Us, I stopped by my mom's house, Grace had stayed the night with my family after Thanksgiving dinner and I just wanted to see her face before I went to sleep for the day. On my way over there I passed Target and noticed that the parking lot didn't look that bad. I talked my mom into going with me, and we packed up Grace and headed over there.

We got some GREAT deals. While I was there I phoned Jamie and we discussed getting a small TV for our bedroom and he agreed that it would be a good time to buy it. We ended up getting it that afternoon at Sears.

All in all, we had fun shopping and didn't think that the crowds were too bad.

Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving!!

Thanksgiving

2009-11-24T11:14:00.001-06:00

I just wanted to wish everyone a wonderful Thanksgiving!!

This year kinda stinks. I have to work a twelve hour shift the night before Thanksgiving and work at eleven the night of Thanksgiving. My mom really works with whatever time will work out best for everyone to be able to come. She is doing dinner around four-ish. The bad thing is Jamie's aunt is having dinner at five all the way out in Pacific. So we won't be able to attend both with me having to work that night. I told Jamie that he can go to his families and I can just go to mine, but then the issue is who Grace gets to go with. I want to be with her on the holiday, and Jamie said that he wants us all to be together. So I guess we will figure it all out on Thursday. My mom makes some yummy food, the standard things- turkey, stuffing, green bean casserole, corn, salad, macaroni, rolls, etc. All of the kids are home and it is a fun time. I love being with the ones that I love and love me on the holidays.

Bad News

2009-11-24T11:08:00.002-06:00

When I moved into my condo a few years ago my loan officer obtained a grant for me that paid for all of my closing costs but in return I had to stay in my home for five years. I was under the impression that it was prorated if you sold before the five years. I called yesterday to ask and the lady told me that it is not prorated and you have to pay all of it back at the time of closing.

SO- BLAH!!!! Guess that makes our decision easier about selling our home. We will have to just stay put for eighteen months. I was bummed out all day yesterday but I have to keep on reminding myself that we are so fortunate to even have a home and are still doing really well in this terrible economy.

Grace's Fall Pictures

2009-11-23T07:52:00.003-06:00

Okay so here are a few of Grace's Fall pictures. These are the ones that I had done by Emily Miller Photography. She did a great job, we are absolutely thrilled with the way they turned out. If you want to see the rest please email me or leave me a message and I will give you the information on how to do that. Please don't copy these!!! These are her proofs and I do not own the rights to these.

Leave me a comment and tell me what you think!!

Friday Night Lights

2009-11-20T08:24:00.002-06:00

Okay so I was skeptical at first too.......... but I love love love times a hundred Friday Night Lights. Hands down the best show I have seen in years. It is so much more than football! It has a great story line and leaves me in tears every week. For those who haven't seen it, go ahead and give it a chance you won't be disappointed.

P.S. The characters in the show are really easy on the eyes!!

Leave me a comment and tell me if you watch the show.

Shopping, Shopping, Shopping

2009-11-20T08:16:00.001-06:00

Yesterday my sister, Grace, and I went to Chesterfield Mall. We had a great time. We mostly window shopped but found some really cute things. We put Grace by the window at the Pet store and she was SCREAMING hi to the puppies, and getting so frustrated with them. It was HILARIOUS!!! We let her play on the playground, and ride on the carousel.

We ate lunch at the Cheesecake Factory. Sarah was in awe of the restaurant, she kept on saying that she never ate some where so fancy. These two little old ladies sat next to us and Grace worked her charm on them the entire lunch.

I finished off the day by stopping in at my brothers house. I hadn't seen them in awhile and couldn't believe how much my nephews have grown. Collin is getting cuter every time I see him. Grace played with them and Sarah, Shawn, and I caught up.

Just wanted to say that I love my sister very much and love that she loves Grace so much. She is always loving on her, willing to watch her, and loves playing with her. Thanks again for making yesterday such a wonderful girls day out.

ENT Visit

2009-11-17T22:01:00.002-06:00

Today I had to take Grace for her six month ENT visit to make sure that her tubes in her ears were still looking good. We see Dr. Hardeman and just LOVE him. Grace had frequent ear infections and since the tubes she has been a whole new child. Dr. Hardeman said the tubes still looked great but this is the season that would be the most challenging because it is ear infection season, so cross your fingers for us.

Also, I am off work tomorrow and plan on doing a craft project. I will post pictures later. I plan on making my own version of a glass hurricane. Please feel free to leave me a comment if you like it!!

What is new???

2009-11-17T02:08:00.003-06:00

What is Grace up to now a days?? Well what she is not up to is more like it!!!

-Grace is now seventeen months old- SIGH- She is getting so old!!
-She is talking up a storm. It doesn't all make sense but she tries and is trying to repeat everything (I now have to make sure that I sensor everything).
-She is really into playing with purses, she carries one around all the time. She carries it in the bend of arm, it is too cute. She puts random things in the purses but has a ball filling and un-filling them.
-She is a sorter. What I mean by this is, she puts things in piles and then picks them up and puts them other places. She do es this all day!!
-She is starting to dance to music. She has been hitting a button on her book that plays a song and then she shakes her booty and arms. It is adorable!
-She loves to play in the bath.
-She loves to have us read books to her.
-She is no longer drinking from a bottle. We took her bottle away last week and it was for sure harder on me than her. She called out for it and asked for it every morning- "Ba Ba Ba"!! We stuck to our guns and now she is calling it her "Cup".

Grace is so small but has already made such an unbelievable impact in Jamie and I's life that we don't know what we would do with out her. She is incredible to me. I love everything about her. She has this beautiful smile that just makes my heart melt. I love her little voice and giggle. Can't wait to see what the future holds for her.

The Holidays

2009-11-16T02:08:00.004-06:00

I am so excited about the upcoming holidays. I know that I have talked about it before but I can't say it enough- the holidays are so much more fun now that I am a parent. I look at it all differently now. For instance, I can't wait to tell her about Jesus and his birthday. I can't wait to do special things with her and make traditions for our family. To bake Christmas cookies with her, hide things in her stocking, etc. all of it the years are just going to get better and better.

I am so sad that she isn't a baby anymore but every single day gets better and better. She is mocking words right now and to hear her mock the words I love you just makes me want to melt. I love being a mom!!!!!

Jamie is such a great dad too!! He is always reading to her and talking to her. I love watching and listening to them play. It makes me love him in a whole new way.

Deer Hunting

2009-11-16T01:54:00.002-06:00

I have had this ongoing worry every time Jamie talks about deer hunting that I hope that he will be safe and returned home safe to me without any scratches. And I know he probably thinks that I am crazy but my concerns were totally validated to me today with how dangerous deer hunting can be.

My friend Julie just got married three weeks ago, she just got home from her honeymoon last weekend, and her new husband and father went deer hunting this weekend. Her husband's father was accidentally shot and the bullet entered through his stomach and exited out of his back. He was transported to the closest hospital in Columbia. They were having a hard time getting the bleeding to stop and passed away within hours of arriving at the hospital.

I couldn't imagine losing my father and would be utterly devastated. One sad thing that I have left out is that when she was notified that someone was shot she was told it was her husband. Her brand new husband. I couldn't imagine what was going through her mind at the time. I think it is beyond sad that Brett's father passed away but would had been crushed if it was Brett. Julie has been searching for love for so long and for her brand new husband to be taken away so soon would had been horrendous.

So with all of this being said, it makes me even TEN times more nervous for Jamie to be out there deer hunting. So pray that Jamie will continue to be safe when he is out hunting and please say a little prayer for the Brett's family. It stinks that a hobby that Jamie is so passionate about is so dangerous. I am just crossing my fingers that he gets a deer he wants one so badly.

Christmas Shopping

2009-11-16T01:47:00.002-06:00

Friday night my mom and I got some Christmas shopping done. We had so much fun. Jamie had to go to bed early because he was going deer hunting the next morning and my dad and brothers are out of town deer hunting, so it was the perfect opportunity for us girls to spend some time together.

We went to Toys R Us and Target. I had some coupons and with the price matching got some great deals. I bought for Jamie's nephews and nieces and got a few things for little Grace. We aren't buying Grace any toys this year so I have been pretty creative with her gifts. I just can't wait to spend time with her this holiday season.

We finished the night off with a kids meal at Culvers. We had a great time!

Picture Time

2009-11-16T01:40:00.003-06:00

Saturday morning we had Grace's pictures taken. My friend Angela had referred me to this nice lady that meets you at an outdoor setting and takes pictures. We met at a BEAUTIFUL church in Crystal City at 915 in the morning. The photographer was sweet as can be and felt like an old friend my the time we were done.

She got some great shots. Grace was a little ham. She kept on smiling so cute and wanting to hold the photographers hand. I should get the proofs on line in a week and I will share some with you at that time. Cross your fingers for us that they turn out as cute as I think they will.

Thank You Mom

2009-11-16T01:23:00.003-06:00

I couldn't have made it the last couple of weeks without my mom. Jamie spent a few days in Texas with his friend and I happened to have to work a few of the days when he was out of town. When I have to work, I mean I have to work twelve hour shifts and hour drive time to and from, so I am gone for a good fourteen hours straight. My mom babysat Grace from Thursday evening till Saturday evening and was so nice about doing it. She says its not babysitting its spending time with my grand-daughter. Grace always has so much fun over there and is loved to pieces.

Well this weekend Jamie went deer hunting, and I had to work again. She only had to go over there from the late afternoon till this evening but it still was so nice of her to watch her. Jamie is so cute, he stopped and got her a fountain soda to thank her.

I just makes my heart feel so good knowing that I can depend on her so much and we are so grateful to have such a wonderful mom. Grace is such a lucky girl, I wish I would have had such a great grandmother that was so involved in my life growing up.

Thanks again Mom!!!

Happy Halloween

2009-10-31T15:26:00.002-05:00

Happy Halloween everyone!!

It has been a very hectic week here. Grace was not feeling well so I took her into the Pediatricians office and she was diagnosed with Influenza A. She had a fever, cough, and just felt terrible for several days. She is starting to come around today.

Grace has had ear infections, and a couple of colds but seeing her this sick this week has broke my heart and really got me thinking of how blessed we are. Grace only has the flu she will be back to her normal little self any-day but think of those families that have to watch their 16 month olds have some type of incurable disease, I couldn't imagine.

Also, wanted to mention that my Great Aunt Linda is coming in town this weekend from Arizona and will get to meet my daughter for the first time on Halloween. I am so excited to see her face when she sees Grace in person. If you read this Aunt Linda, can't wait to see you!!

Well everyone, I hope you have a safe and fun Halloween!!

Cruise

2009-10-14T23:58:00.004-05:00

I just booked us a cruise for January. So when it is cold her in the STL we will be in the Caribbean. That's right we leave from Florida and make two stops in the Bahamas. We will be flying and I have never flown in a plane before so I am super nervous. We will only be going for three nights so it shouldn't be that miserable leaving Grace for that short time.

We have cruised one other time and LOVED it!!!!!!!!!! This couldn't come at a better time for us. We are working at keeping our marriage and friendship as strong as it could be.

Date Nights

2009-10-14T23:50:00.003-05:00

So lately Jamie and I have been super spoiled and have went on two date nights, not one but TWO!!! The first one, we dropped Grace off at Ms. Judy's and we went to TGI Fridays for appetizers and walked over to the movie theater and saw "Love Happens".

The second date night, we dropped Grace off at her Grandma JoAnne's and we went and saw "Couples Retreat". It has been so much fun having so much time alone with Jamie. I hope he thinks that way about me.

Hopefully we can continue to have these more frequent date nights, it is so healthy for a happy marriage.

Monkey Joe's

2009-10-14T23:39:00.004-05:00

So the other day my Mom and I spent the day together because she was still on funeral leave. We spent the afternoon shopping. We went to HomeGoods and Grace sat in the cart and pointed to things on the shelves, smiled at people in the store, and was just an AWESOME little girl. We were in there forever.

I found tons of cute new Fall and Christmas decorations. I got a few things to decorate outside and some things to put on my mantle and coffee table, etc. I did however get the neatest centerpiece for my dining room table.

After all the shopping, Grace was still being a doll so we wanted to reward her. We took her to Monkey Joe's. Monkey Joe's is this neat place that has all these inflatables that kids jump on. Grace just laughed, threw her little body around, and jumped up and down. I couldn't have loved her anymore watching her show off and and have so much fun.

We will be visiting Monkey Joe's again!!!!!

Pumpkin Patch

2009-10-14T23:29:00.004-05:00

If you know me then you know how much I love Eckerts!!!! We took Gracie there two weekends ago, and she had a great time. They had tons for little ones to do, and she just went and went. She went on her first carnival type ride. It was a little airplane that went round and round, and she didn't cry one bit it was like she was in a trance. She sat and watched the Pig Races. It was just so nice being together as a family. I love spending time together and being alone with Grace and Jamie.

The day was very windy and chilly and subsequently later in the week got a runny nose. We got tons of cute pictures and I will post some for everyone to enjoy.

Finding My Faith

2009-09-20T03:17:00.002-05:00

After the things that I have been through in the last couple of years, I often find myself struggling with my faith. I think that I questions God's motives sometimes and have to remind myself that there is a reason for everything that happens. It is Gods plan for my life, and I just need to give him my all and he will mold and shape me.

Jamie and I haven't been to church in awhile for the fact that I work every weekend and have to sleep during the daytime while service is going on. When we have been we go to Abiding Savior Lutheran Church. We go to the more modern service and really enjoy it. Jamie is a Baptist and I was a Methodist, so we were looking for a church that we both could enjoy. The preacher is young and makes the sermon relate to everyday.

The other day I thought that I needed something to redirect my faith on a daily basis and I found a daily scripture and reading from Joel Olsteen (hope I spelled his name right). I love it, every day Jamie and I read it together and talk about it. I actually look forward to the next days readings and think to myself "he must have known that we are going through this," and "oh my gosh this couldn't relate to me anymore." I am going to make a conscious effort to give a 190% more time and energy to help myself through this struggle and learning period. I will keep you posted on how it goes!!!

Big Changes

2009-09-20T03:06:00.004-05:00

So I have decided after tons of thought to make a change........... I am done with working weekend option. Starting the next schedule at work I will be just regular full time night shift. I will work more during the week and only one weekend every four weeks. It will be super hectic during the week, but so nice to be home with Jamie and Grace on the weekends.

I will be taking a major pay cut but its manageable!!!! As I am getting older I have came to the conclusion that money is nice but it isn't everything. It has put a major strain on our marriage with me not being home. I am almost giddy thinking of being able to be home with my husband all weekend. Right now he is off every weekend and works all week, and I am the complete opposite.

Jamie will take Grace to her babysitters Ms Judy and I will pick her up. My boss was super supportive of the decision and will move me to full time asap. Wish us luck, it has been a wild ride

I heart fall

2009-09-15T05:31:00.003-05:00

I love love love love Fall. It is my favorite season. I love every thing about it. The changing of the weather, the smells, bonfires, wearing jackets, the upcoming holidays, etc. I already started burning my Pumpkin Spice and Vanilla Bean candles.

For the last couple of years I have enjoyed Halloween more than every holiday. I love giving candy out to the kids and making them tell me jokes. My mom makes chili and hot-dogs. I love seeing my siblings dressed up. It is so less stressful than any of the other holidays. Having a small child and the holidays is stressful having to make sure that you hit all the stops that you need to and keeping them happy. So I enjoy a laid back one.

I had bought Grace a little pink bunny outfit to wear to trick and treat in. My dad had called me the other day and told me that he saw the cutest little witch costume at Cracker Barrel (Hope I spelled that right) and asked me if I had already bought her a costume and I told him yes. I went to pick up Grace from her Friday with her Grandma Jo Anne and there it was hanging up in the kitchen. My dad told me that he couldn't resist buying it for her. I just hope that she keeps the witch hat on her head. I plan on getting her pictures taken in it next week.

I can't wait to take Grace to the Pumpkin Patch and Eckerts this year, everything is so much funner now that Grace is in our lives.

Condo off the market

2009-09-15T05:23:00.002-05:00

Well our home is officially off the market. We ended our contract with our agent over the weekend. A couple of weeks ago, I had a family that had knocked on the door and asked if they could come in and look around but didn't have an agent with them. We exchanged information and they even came back to look a second time. We never heard back from them, and I didn't call and bother them.

Sunday morning we found a post it on our door and it was from them asking us to give them a call. The lady had lost my contact info. and was wanting to tell me that they were still interested. They were going to meet with a financial officer yesterday and keep me posted.

I pray everyday that something comes about, we want to buy a new home so bad............ We have a couple in mind that we like, but don't want to get our heart set on anything because you never know how long it will take us to sell this one. We are going to go ahead and try to sell it for sale by owner for a few weeks. Please keep us in your prayers that something will eventually happen for us. I never ever want to have to sell a home again!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mizzou Game

2009-09-15T05:13:00.004-05:00

Jamie got us great tickets to the Mizzou game on Saturday. My parents watched Grace and she even got to stay the night over there. We has such a FABULOUS time. Our seats were beyond AWESOME. We have been to a few games together but when you sit so close to to the action it changes everything.

Mizzou played Bowling Green and the game started off kinda sketchy. We weren't playing very well and it was pretty frustrating. After half time our boys came out and played a whole new game. We ended up coming back, held the lead, and won. It was so much fun. I am starting to really understand football and enjoy watching it, I have to- It is my husbands first love and was around way before I came along.

We had sat by some people that had some cute little ones and it made us miss Grace like crazy. I am now on a mission to get Grace a cute Mizzou outfit to support her favorite team.

Date Night

2009-09-15T05:00:00.003-05:00

After working so hard and for so many days in a row, Jamie and I were in some desperate need of some quality time. We dropped Grace off at my moms and she watched Grace for the evening. We headed over to Bambino's Restaurant in Arnold.

Bambino's has a great patio, and we love outdoor dining. Pasta was 50% off and that made our decisions easy. I loved what I ordered. It was noodles in red sauce, meatballs, and provel cheese that was twice baked, it was yummy. Jamie got some type of chicken and cheese pasta.

After dinner we headed over to Target to do some shopping. It had been a long time since we both went into Target and boy could you tell we did some splurging. I bought some tights and socks for Grace, I bought myself a Halloween t-shirt, and a new book. Jamie bought the new season of Friday Night Lights, the movies "Role Models" and "I love you man." Target is my FAVORITE store and have a love relationship with it. We were on a mission to buy a Halloween tablecloth and could only find plastic ones not cloth ones. So, maybe this week I can go look again and see if they put any out.

We ended a wonderful night with picking Grace and up and seeing that she had a great time with my family. My mom said she was showing off and behaved great. My sister and brothers just love her so much. There is nothing better in the world than seeing people that are so dear to me be so crazy about Grace, she kinda runs the show over there.

Busy Busy Busy

2009-09-15T04:47:00.004-05:00

Last week was wonderful! I knew I had to work five days on and then one off and two more on, so I needed to spend as much quality time with Grace as I could.

Tuesday we went to Botanical Gardens with some of my friends from work and their children. I was kinda skeptical because Grace is so little, but we had a great time. It reminded me of Peter Pan's Never Land. It had different levels, slides, caves, boat, etc. Grace played well with the other kids, and we had a picnic lunch with my friends. Before it was time to leave we all fed the fish. Grace was in awe of them, she stood on the bridge and just put her head through the sides and pointed to them.

Wednesday Jamie took a half day at work and met me at the Zoo. The weather couldn't have been anymore beautiful and it seemed like we had the entire zoo to ourselves. Grace rode on the carousel. We spent our time going through the different animal houses. It was great to spend time with the two people that mean the most to me in life before the start of a busy week.

JoAnne's 50th Birthday

2009-09-03T13:24:00.003-05:00

Saturday I threw my mom a surprise party. I had been planning it for awhile and it went over pretty well. I told my mom that her, Sarah, Grace, and I were going to get our pictures taken. I told her that I was running late so Jamie was getting Grace ready and he would meet us at the commuter parking lot with her. So I pick up my mom and Sarah head over the commuter parking lot and they are my moms friends with a banner waiting for her. She was totally surprised. We told her that we were taking her to the winery. So my mom doesn't drink but I thought it was a good idea for the fact that we could sit around and talk and listen to music and people could drink if they wanted to.

The problem was that you could tell that we were all a bunch of housewives that work full time and don't get out much because we had a little too much fun!!! My mom was mortified, she sat there all day and drank Diet Coke and I am pretty sure we embarrassed her. All in all, I had a fabulous day- Great friends, great weather, and a great place. I don't think I will be drinking wine anytime soon though!!!!

My brothers wedding

2009-08-24T21:28:00.005-05:00

Shawn, my mom, and Sam

The Bride and Groom

My Grandparents and my sister Sarah

Beautiful Gracie

Well, My brother Shawn finally tied the knot. It wasn't a big surprise since they have two kids. It was very sudden, they gave us three weeks notice. They had a small ceremony at Bee Tree Park and it was so beautiful.

My brother Sam was the Best Man and her sister from New York was her Maid of Honor. The spot over looked a fountain and the Mississippi River. The bride was pretty and my nephews were in little tuxes.

The downside, it was at 10 am and already like 90 degrees out. Wouldn't have been so bad but the bride was running an hour late. Everyone was sweating their butts off. Poor Grace had sweat dripping down her back, we took off her little pantyhose and shoes to cool her off.

It was nice to see Shawn happy and that is all that counts. I wish them the best of luck!!!

Home from Vacation

2009-08-24T21:14:00.005-05:00

Well I know it has been awhile since I last posted and I am sorry I have been slacking. Vacation was fabulous. We ended up not going to Florida. The day before we were suppose to leave we saw that they had suspected some tropical storms to head in the entire week we were going to be there.

Jamie has a timeshare that we were able to book at Table Rock Lake. We took my twin brothers. They were fun and tons of help with Grace. We went sight seeing, swimming, rode the Ducks, went boating, and relaxed.

I had a GREAT time, but there is no place like home. Every time we go on vacation we come home early and its because I hate staying at other places. I am the biggest homebody and i'm never comfortable in a hotel. Luckily, my husband doesn't kill me over my obsession to go on vacation and then come home because he is the exact same way. The only vacation that we ever took with each other that we both agreed kept our attention and was fun was our cruise. Hmmm Maybe that is a sign that one day we will be back on one.

It was a good thing that we did switch destinations because they were broadcasting on the Travel Channel on the exact beach that we were suppose to be staying, and the electricity was off, beaches closed, etc. We would have been furious if we traveled that far with Grace and the weather was that bad.

We came home and have just done a few things around the house and enjoyed being lazy. I have enclosed a few pictures of the vacation.

Ms. Judy

2009-08-05T22:31:00.003-05:00

It's time.................. It's time that we finally find a babysitter for Grace. We have winged it and managed to keep her home with us and just stay with family so far but its becoming more and more challenging. I am being pretty much forced to work more and more hours at work and it hasn't slowed up yet, so I am needing someone to watch her the random hours that come up.

Grace will still go over to my moms every Friday, well as long as she still wants to keep her, so far so good. We are so very thankful that my mom has been able to keep her for us. She misses a day of pay every Friday to watch her. What an awesome grandmother!!!

A friend of mine from work suggested that I call Ms. Judy. Ms. Judy babysat her son for the last few years and she speaks so highly and kindly of her. She is really close to home too. I called her tonight and spoke to her. She has an opening and pretty much said, "When will she be coming over."

It's funny, I figured that when the day would come that I would have tons of questions for the lady that would watch my child and a background and reference check but there was something very comforting about her, and can't wait to meet her. Jamie, Grace, and I are going over there Friday late afternoon to meet her. So cross your fingers that everything works out with her and she takes good care of my baby. Grace is so precious and priceless to us and we only want someone that loves her to take care of her. So this will be a hard transition for us, but it will be wonderful to have a sitter on a permanent basis for her.

Wild Wendsday

2009-08-05T22:23:00.002-05:00

Today was a great day. I enjoyed the day with Grace at the pool. We stayed longer today than we have any other time that we have went. She got a great nap prior, just had lunch, and was in such a great mood. I could have played with her forever there. I ran into some of my old friends from high school and talked with them and met their kiddos. I am coming to the realization that Grace is BRAVE!! Oh how she is not scared of the water one bit and wants to be doing everything the big kids are doing. She looks so darling and dainty but let me tell you she is a maniac!!!

We came home and Jamie and I decided to eat dinner out. We ate at Red Lobster. Jamie had a gift card to eat there from his birthday (Susan if you read this- thank you very much). I came across a four dollar off coupon in the newspaper and we used it. We had a nice dinner and enjoyed watching Grace catching everyone's attention that was sitting remotely near us.

Came home and spent the evening playing on the floor getting kisses from Grace. Now what could be a better day than that.......................

Second Hand Surprise

2009-08-05T22:15:00.004-05:00

Today I went in Once Upon A Child, its a second hand children's clothing and toy store. I have been in there before but definitely got a new perspective on the store, I LOVE IT!!! I consider myself frugal, very rarely do I buy something for Grace in season at full price. I buy most of her clothes at Children's Place or Target but at the end of season on clearance for the next year, but its really cute stuff.

Today, I got the most amazing deals, like shock worthy deals. I got 32 items for 68 dollars. I had a 20% off coupon and a five dollars off my total coupon that I used. I got Grace tons of things for fall, coats, shoes, hats, hair bows, jeans, pajamas, long sleeved shirts, sweaters, etc. We walked out of there as winners!!! We are set for the winter. I even got her a Halloween costume. I am so mad that it didn't fit, will have to exchange for another but it was worth a try. Grace would have been the cutest bunny out there.

Chuck E Cheese

2009-08-05T22:06:00.003-05:00

Today I took Grace to Chuck E Cheese's. I have to tell you I was pretty disgusted at what I saw there. It was nothing but a ton of kids that didn't have any type of parental supervision running around like animals. I am not going to say that I am the best mom out there but this made me feel like I am mother of the year. I hate when children don't behave and the parents just sit there and yell at them and don't get of their bums to do something about it. That is a pet peeve of mine!!

Grace did in fact have lots of fun. She actually ran around and got tons out of it and was trying to play on all the rides. Sniff Sniff it made me realize how fast she is growing up. We had lunch there and played all afternoon.

The Lake

2009-08-05T21:59:00.003-05:00

Near the end of the week we had some babysitting issues and our plans to go to the Jamey Johnson concert fell through so last minute we decided to head to the lake. We got all packed up, picked Grace up from her Friday with her Grandma JoAnne and got on the highway.

The drive wasn't to bad. Grace only got restless near the end and we made great time. Jamie drives like a maniac so we make great time any where we go. When we got to the condo Grace was hilarious, walking around checking the place out. We quickly unpacked the car and did a quick one to over of the place to baby proof.

We spent the weekend merely relaxing........ We did a little shopping, ate some wonderful food, sat on the deck, played with Grace, and went swimming for a bit. We were sad to come home but all good things eventually come to an end!!!

It was the perfect ending to an awesome week. I think Jamie and I reconnected more this week than in the last year or so. Were definitely going to make more time to do little trips like that, life is to short to just work all the time and stay home.

My wonderful husband

2009-08-05T21:51:00.004-05:00

Jamie turned thirty last week, and in turn we spent the most fabulous evening together. We stayed the night at the casino, and stayed in the most beautiful room. Jamie picked to go out to dinner at a wonderful restaurant in Soulard. We both got salads, steaks, and baked potatoes.

I love every minute of being a mother, but it was WONDERFUL to get an entire night off. My mom came over to my house and spent the evening with Grace and put her to bed. Which is nice because Grace was able to stay on her own routine and go to sleep in her own bed which by the way she loves so very much.

Jamie and I had a few drinks at the casino after we got done with dinner, and had the best quality time that one could ask for. It was truly the best evening of the entire summer. It definitely made me think that I should plan a night out for us like that at least once every other month or so. You can't put a price tag on spending time or money on someone that you love so much!!!

Jamie's 30th Birthday

2009-07-24T09:37:00.002-05:00

Jamie's 30th birthday is coming up next week and I am getting excited. My very generous friend from work booked us a hotel room with her casino reward points so are planning on staying the night there and eating dinner anywhere that Jamie picks downtown the night of his birthday. Then Friday night we are going to the Farmington County Fair to see a country singer that Jamie likes named Jamey Johnson. Then to finish the week of festivities, Saturday night we are going tWet week, he deserves it!!

Summer is going by so fast

2009-07-24T09:03:00.002-05:00

I am so disappointed with how this summer has went by so fast. I had big plans of taking Grace to the pool a couple of times a week and to go on little adventures. Instead I have spent the summer working full time and then some. The only thing that has gotten me through the last couple of weeks is the thought that our vacation is in a few weeks. We are going to Panama City Beach for some rest and relaxation. I am taking a vow that the next few weeks that I am going to make the best of my days off and Grace and I will start doing the things that I had originally planned for us.

Produce Co-op

2009-07-09T17:51:00.004-05:00

My friend at work runs this produce co-op. She figures out how many people want to purchase the produce, collects their money, and then picks it up for everyone. This is the first time I joined in the fun, and let me tell you its a STEAL.
This is all that we got for $22:
1-Pineapple
2 cartons of mushrooms
2 cartons of blueberries
5 tomatoes
8 bananas
2 honeydews
9 apples
5lb's of Russet Potatoes
5 green peppers
3 zucchini
bag full of leaf lettuce
Let me know if you are interested in participating and I will give you more specific details!!

Counter Offer Sucks!!

2009-07-09T17:48:00.005-05:00

OKAY so it didn't work out!! The lady wouldn't budge she still wanted to pay way less- like fifteen thousand less and wanted three thousand toward her closing costs paid. We want to sell our condo but not that bad. We will have an open house July 19th and go from there. Oh well, at least someone was finally interested. Also, if we had to close on the day she wanted to we would have never been able to go on vacation in August, and oh how I need that vacation.

Contract on the condo

2009-07-08T03:47:00.003-05:00

Well I guess the new living room furniture did it, because we had a lady put a contract down on the condo. It wasn't the best offer but it was a start. We countered back and will hopefully hear back tomorrow. Let me tell you, how STRESSFUL!!! I pray every night that God will do what is planned for Jamie and I but we really want a house to live in. Keep us in your prayers!!